The Real Bro Code
The Essential Guide for Dudes on How to be a Bro
Have you heard of the bro code before? Well, this is the realone. And if there is any book every guy should own, it’s this.
The Real Bro Code is the essential guide for dudes on how to be a bro.Is it rad? Yes. A game-changer? You bet. Is it gonna take your friendships with your bros to the next level? No doubt. Bro-goals for sure.
“Why on earth should I read a book on friendship?” you might ask yourself. Fair question. Here’s the answer: because your friendships are some of the most important relationships in your life, and they will without a doubt determine how your future is gonna look. Most of you have never read a book on friendship before – maybe you feel like guys just shouldn’t need to. Well… Maybe it’s time to change that. Your friendships might be fine, but there’s always more. More depth, connection and adventure. Don’t settle for less. You and your bros deserve more.
The Real Bro Code is for the guy who wants to be the best bro he can possibly be. This practical book will give you solid insights and invite you to really reflect on your own friendships like you’ve never done before.
We all invest in what we care about. So with that in mind, when was the last time you invested time into learning and growing in friendship?
Get yourself a copy of The Real Bro Code today. It’s an easy book to read – and the only one of its kind.Your bros are gonna thank you for it.
The Real Bro Code consists of 44 short chapters – about different topics related to guys’ friendships. At the end of every chapter, the reader will be invited to answer some questions in order to reflect on their own friendship – and then invited to take action. See photos for an example.
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Table of content:
PART ONE PART TWO 1: Brotherhood 2: The Taboo 3: Deep Talk 4: An Incorrect Narrative 5: Competition & Comparison 6: Comfort Your Bro 7: (Quality) Time 8: Commitment 9: Integrity & Accountability 10: The Art of Listening 11: Masculinity 12: Why Veterans Miss War 13: I Love You Bro, No Homo 14: Bro-Awareness 15: Don’t Ditch Your Bro For A Girl 16: Bros & Family 17: Encourage Your Bro 18: Long-Distance Brotherhood 19: Conflict 20: I Love You, Bro (But I Only Tell You When I’m Drunk) 21: Closest Moment 22: Expectations 23: Needy? 24: Don’t Ditch Your Bro. Ditch Your Phone 25: Ditch the Cool Pose 26: We Need Adventure 27: Passive or Intentional? 28: Wounds That Shape Us 29: Reliability & Consistency 30: Cheap Excuses Are Worthless 31: Empowering Others 32: Give and Take 33: Touch Isolation 34: Every Brotherhood is Different 35: Space 36: Betrayal 37: When A Brotherhood Ends 38: Dreams, Goals, & Purpose 39: Upbringing 40: Investment & Generosity 41: Bro-Dating 42: Everyday Life of Brotherhood 43: How to Find Bros 44: Self-Reflection PART THREE About the Author About Brothers Sources and Resources
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A hello from the author (totally homemade vid)
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Maria Oei –
It’s sad to know that a book about becoming a real bro is ever in need to be written in this century. The modern society has made rules about how to be a certain gender and it certainly does nothing but limiting one to connect with others. The author writes “..many people out there have wrongly labeled human qualities as exclusively feminine qualities”.
As a counsellor working for mental health care, I have recommended and would definitely recommend this book to a friend, a brother, a colleague, a client or to anyone from all ages and all genders. I applaud the author to write this book as an easy read, heart-warming and more importantly relatable. If you like this book, I would recommend reading other books that the author has read such as “Breaking the Male Code” and “When Boys Become Boys”.
Lastly, my fav line from this book: “A bro is not just a wingman, a casual hang-out, or a drinking buddy”. Read this book and let’s be a REAL bro for once!
Austen –
The Real Bro Code tackles, head on, much of the social stigmas surrounding male relationship. It does so in a way that is impactful and relatable. The chapters are short, quick reads, but offer opportunities for practical reflection and purposeful implementation of the topics discussed. As a young adult, heavily involved in peer leadership and mentorship, I’d recommend this book to anyone who wants to be a better friend, brother or just person in general. Relationship is the basis of meaningful connection, and this book teaches the reader how to be better at it.
Stephanie –
This book normalises brotherhood and the value in male friendships. It’s a mesh of conversation and questions for the reader to reflect on. It’s a page turner and even though you can read it in one sitting, it’s a book you’ll always want to go back to, one that you want to devour slowly over time as it provokes challenging healthy actions to better relationships.
It’s definitely a must buy for all the guys in my life!
Anonymous –
Thank you for adressing this issue we have with communicating and supporting each other,
thank you for giving us tools in which to work on those issues and thank you for contributing
on improving mens mental health world wide!
Wow! I’m looking forward to be rereading this multiple times, and challenge myself and contemplate over the questions in this book over and over!
Thank you, Kim Evensen and Brothers!
Andreas Flink –
Kim writes about something I think challenges a lot of my views of brotherly friendship, but also reminds me of things I have forgotten to do that would really be beneficial to do in a friendship.
I love the fact that after each chapter, there are questions to reflect on and action steps to take, which helps to make everything he writes more applicable, which is great!
In short and many chapters, Kim has brought a lot of principles and topics of friendships between bros to light, and I think it’s an important book to read for many.
Matt J King –
The Real Bro Code lays a good foundation to build strong, healthy friendships.
The chapters are bite-sized and I easily read them by the middle of my morning coffee or before my bus arrived at my destination. There are always thought-provoking questions to consider as well. These aren’t just ideas to read and think, “well that’s kinda cool”, but they’re tools that we can apply to our friendships and get results.
Five stars. I will be recommending this/gifting this to some of my bros.
Nicklas Elofsson –
This is an amazing book for men on how to build strong friendships with each other. It is packed with so much wisdom and helpful advices. Each chapter provides you with helpful questions for you to reflect upon. It also challenges you in a practical way with suggested actions that will help you connect with your friends in a deeper way. This book was very helpful to me and I highly recommend it to anyone who is longing for authentic and meaningful friendships.
Tormod –
This fenomenal book really helped me see friendships in a whole new light. It really inspired and helped me dive deeper into my friendships, and showed me theres more potential! I’m grateful for the author that opened my eyes in this profound area of life. I definitely reckommend this book!
Marcello –
Kim is the leader in the relationship field. He knows rules, feelings, purposes of friendship and so able to communicate everything to the reader who gains new friendship skills through this interesting reading.
Hope the best for Kim and its originality.
Robert –
The Real Bro Code spoke to the work I do as a teacher and as a coach and I’m always trying to help my guys through emotions and what it means to be a true brother to those they are friends with and The Real Bro Code will help greatly with influencing their thinking on their bros – and personally with my best friend who I’ve kind of drifted from – I think it’s time to really reconnect and this book will help bring the figurative and actual distance between us a little closer – amazing read on true brotherhood and creating healthy masculinity – a definite must have for teachers and coaches and all the brothers out there
Clarideth Libut –
I find the book interesting, good, and worth my money! There should be some code written for women friendships as well! 🙂
Kage –
This book normalises brotherhood and the value in male friendships. It’s a mesh of conversation and questions for the reader to reflect on. It’s a page turner and even though you can read it in one sitting, it’s a book you’ll always want to go back to, one that you want to devour slowly over time as it provokes challenging healthy actions to better relationships.
It’s definitely a must buy for all the guys in my life!
Conrad Dunn –
This book was great. As someone who struggles socially, especially with other guys, this book was really helpful. Male friendships (deep ones) need to be discussed more, and this book shows you how to be a true friend.
JGSLO –
This book is a story book, guide, and workbook that if followed will enrich guy’s relationships. Much needed. Thought provoking. Encouraging us to focus on the most important thing in our lives- FULFILLING, HONEST, HIGH VALUE RELATIONSHIPS. Take the time to read this. Short chapters. Thought provoking questions. Easy to apply in our daily lives. Thanks Kim!
Kenny –
This was a wonderful book! I love how Kim is very down to Earth and honest about his perceptions and experiences. He discusses the matter in a very casual, informal way that most authors don’t. He says a lot of things that guys I know are too afraid to say. I consider this book a “must” for anyone wanting to research this topic.
Luke –
As cheesy as it might sound, The Real Bro Code is really a life changing book! It opened my eyes to both the strengths and the weaknesses in my friendships. The questions to reflect on highlighted things I love about my friendships and relationships, while still helping me think critically about them and giving me concrete examples of things I can do to deepen my friendships or be more supporting for my bros. The book also addresses the whole lot of stigmas around men’s relationships, and I believe everyone can benefit from being a part of that conversation.
So even if you think your friendships are perfect (but especially if you struggle with them) I’d encourage you to pick up a copy of The Real Bro Code. It’s a fun, compelling, and informative read!
-Luke, an 18 year old hoping to be the best bro he can be
Frans Andreas Baardsen –
The first thing that striked me as I dived into the book, was that Kim made this easy for me. Easy to read, easy to understand and easy to relate. He writes in an informal and refreshing way about difficult, and in some cases almost taboo subjects (have you ever really given a bro a real heartfelt hug, or given him comfort?) I know I got issues when it comes to friendships, and it became very clear as I read, where it hurts, and why I do what I do. Specially the questions after each chapter, gave me several insights and revelations about my self and my bros.
I can feel Kims heartfelt desire. As he shares from his personal experiences and hardship, he shows how vulnerable and afraid we really are. I think we all want to have real authentic friendships, but we don`t know how. The Real Bro Code is giving us all we need to come closer to our bros, which also means coming closer to ourselves. Thank you Kim.
Tobias Berg –
The Real Bro Code is an inspiring book about men’s friendship. The different topics in the book gives you new perspectives on how men can connect as friends on a deeper level. This really challenges me personally to make an effort to invest more in friendships, especially being responsible in close friendships. Thank you Kim for writing this book!